In His Own Words
About him
A genuine guy looking for someone who wants a friendship ideally moves into a relationship . Easy going believing if drama occurs it can fixed through communication, tolerance, and understanding .Not an instant spark prefer a long term fire.
Shared moments. Sometimes failed moments but we get over these together.
I am a positive person and look for the humour in most things . I believe if you cannot laugh you cannot truly live or love.
in terms of my humour I think about the lines of the verse, Do not go gentle into that good night, old age should burn and rave at close of day, Rage, rage against the dying of the light. This is a line from a letter I sent to the electric board after another power cut. It just happens to be a famous poet as well.
In essence get the most out of life each day, fight for life enjoyments.
I feel sure you will not be disappointed in my company neither bored (There's confidence for you)
I would hope such a person would love travel, humour, friendship healthy relationship. which means including all aspects of intimacy.
I am active, chilled liking hot sun holidays. I Cruises, enjoy the coast, visiting culture locations national trust, theatre concert gigs, sport. I will always appreciate effort where someone has planned an event and its not something I would like. The thought is the most important part ,
I like to use my mind, dangerous with humour, can be very flirty, tactile actions to show my affections. I will sneakily squeeze your bum, kiss your cheek, sometimes both cheeks. push boundaries, big hugs, spoons, hopefully you will enjoy these affections & sometimes lead & return the compliments.
Sometimes I can be very serious . It was the worst 24 hrs of my life. I would like to meet someone who cannot sleep on an argument . Why ruin two days or more of precious time
I like long term relationships because both people must work at them to stay fresh.
Relationship is very important to me. I don't do relationship - partnership triangulation etc
About his ideal match
My ideal match is someone who is breathing. Who effort to be in a loving intimate relationship. Someone who prioritises their own interest's sometimes not all times. Sharing most things, not all things.
You will be looking for someone for you, not someone for your children, but someone who will respect your children.
My Ideal person will be balanced give and take, not overly controlling, measured. accepting some differences. able to change with the times. Someone who understands tolerance as its important at the start of a new relationship finding out what each others values likes & dislikes are.
I would hope my person would love travel, humour, friendship healthy relationship. which means including all aspects of intimacy. Hugs and laugh, daily. Theatre, comedy stores and browsing through the occasional & unusual bric a brac shops, markets & country fairs. Just snatch the unplanned moment as they arise.
Travel, sun holidays, cruises, art galleries, I enjoy looking at Rodin, just walking, the coast, visiting, culture locations National trust, theatre concerts, gigs, sharing events. Not always active just relaxing. with evenings in
I am not looking for a pen/text friend or someone who is more interested in using the date site to just validate how they look and who lack any capability of holding a conversation without the capacity to consider other views
I am available for real conversation via phone on a of try before you buy a new outfit basis😊. It would be good if your view of attractiveness is not always films star looks but if it is then i look like Bruce Willis or Godzilla depending on which way the sun is shinning , or the light switch being broken.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Sutton, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
55 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 11" (149cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
It has its moods; Disappearing; It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Hiking; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Rugby; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Older-Dating.com: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
